Dating insight

This is what I've come to understand about the dating game.  You have people who have motives and you have people who just do shit.  Both types make it hard to catch feelings for or take serious.  The ones with the motives are more dangerous because they dont have to show you their "hand".  They can play it out like its choreographed and leave you high and dry.  The ones who just do shit are all over the place.  They have no idea if they're ready for dating.  Hell, they have little-to-no idea what they wanna do with their own life.  For me, things usually start with putting intentions out first.  Once I get women to tell me that, then it lets me know which route to take.  The problem is.....that's where I'm fucking up.  Allowing people to lie to me in the first place.  Not even an intentional lie all the time, it could be a bluff too.  Either way its like playing poker and not knowing the protocol.  The chicks have a royal flush and end up folding or some shit.  #Dummy.  I SHOULD let things flow naturally and not worry about intent.  Which is a problem in itself because thats like walking around blind folded looking for the light switch in unfamiliar territory (tripping over shit).  I'm hard-pressed for the natural aspect because all I've ever known is structure.  Case-in-point, everything involving casual dating is a catch-22 in the sense that the effects create the cause, the cause creates the effects, meanwhile the cause repress the effects and vice-versa.  Its all luck.  Its all probability with winners and losers.  #gamble

Valentines Day

Almost forgot about this blog.  Kinda feel like venting.  Since its valentine's day, I'll bash everything that comes to mind about it.  First of all, its a holiday where you're supposed to show that special someone that you care.  Uhhh, you're supposed to show someone that you care all year-round, not just one day, but anyway.  Let's get to the crust of this.  V-day is a gimmick.  A ploy to boost our economy by getting people to spend extra money so they can A)Show appreciation, B)Get closer to someone, or C)Find someone to be with.  Facebook floods with the V-day posts in both positive and negative ways.  Annually, I tend to display the anti-valentines day approach lol.  Mainly, its because I'm usually single on this day and the other reason is because I like to set random fires of an alternate reality by getting people to think outside the box.  I'm not against tradition nor am I against boosting our economy, but AT LEAST someone with authority or political popularity could give us a wink, a nod, or an elbow bump on the subject.  The rest of the world might be oblivious to it and buy in, but I'm not stupid.  HOWEVER, if it's gonna help me get laid by playing along because that "person of interest" believes in tradition/chivalry/all that jazz, then so be it ;-)

Love sucks

"She loves me, she loves me not".  LOL, it's not that simple.  Remember back in high school, when love was as simple as quality time, physical attraction, and communication?  HAAA, not anymore.  Now people have kids, bills, life goals, etc.... to worry about.  We as adults can handle it (most of us anyway), but we as adults also make more excuses than teenagers do when it comes to relationships (in my opinion and I'm just saying that because teenagers "know not what they do").   Its crazy how you can say you love somebody and be ride or die for them, but the person you love doesn't feel the same way about you.  Its the concept of unconditional love.  You might love someone regardless of the situation, however their love for you has stipulations to it.  You might mean those 3 words when you say it, but those 3 words coming from that other person can roll off the tongue as easily and meaninglessly as "god bless you".  Love is an algorithm.  You know the outcome, but you have to figure out the steps taken to get to the outcome (which is always the hard part). 

Blog 1

What up, world? I thought about posting on facebook today, but it felt like I had writer's block or something. Facebook is addictive, but stupid. Most of the time, I post positive energy on there, but it's hard trying to stay positive from day to day. You either get comments (or likes) from little things you post or you get texts and phone calls from people who took what you said personal. I deal with bullshit daily and it's not self-inflicted. If you live life blaming others, then nothing will ever be self-inflicted to you. If you live life blaming yourself, then it makes you accountable at every step. That’s the bad thing about blaming yourself all the time though……you lose self-confidence and believe it or not, you’re not always guilty (as fucked up as other people are/can be). When I use the word “self-inflicted”, I use it loosely. I don’t go around looking for things to piss me off later, shit just happens. You search for reward and, at times, all you get is outcome. Meaning, you expect good shit, but you end up with regular shit and have to decide whether or not to be psyched about it. It’s like buying weed. It’s all good until you smoke it and don’t get high. Then you’re like “Damn, I just wasted a dub on some bullshit”. Anyways, I’ll keep this short and sweet for today. I got shit to do and I know people don’t like to read a lot nowadays. I’ll get to the “nitty gritty” stuff, in the near future. Check back here OFTEN, people.

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